What the leaflet warning actually refers to Writing it down partly to work out what I actually think.
I have avoided asking about this for six weeks out of pure embarrassment.
I am not looking for reassurance particularly. I am looking for somebody to say either that they had exactly this, or that they did not, because both would help.
What I cannot tell is whether this is the ordinary tax or the sort of thing that needs somebody today, and that distinction is the whole of my question.
Nobody warned me about this specifically and I am starting to think that is because it is common enough that everybody assumed I knew.
Thanks in advance. Even a one-line "yes, me too" would help more than you would think.
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