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Nausea plus wine — a mistake made once

Started 24 August 2025 · 17 replies · 151 hearts · read 1.4k times

AmbroseYork, UK · 24 August 2025
11 months ago

A question rather than an update: Nausea plus wine — a mistake made once

Practical question, and possibly a silly one.

I have worked out a system that mostly holds and there is one part of it that keeps failing, and I would like to hear how other people solved that part.

My household has adjusted to about half of this and the other half is causing small daily friction that I have not known how to raise.

Sorry for the length. The logistics take longer to describe than they do to do.

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PerdyShrewsbury, UK
#1

What helped was noticing the pattern in my notes. Three difficult mornings across two months, all after the same thing.

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DotFalmouth, UK
#2

Nothing here is medical advice, and on interactions specifically a pharmacist will give you a better answer in five minutes than any thread.

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FionnualaDundalk, IE
#3

Coming back a year on to say it settled into something I am comfortable with, which is less and better and much less thought about.

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AdaFacilitatorManchester, UK
#4

A standing reminder rather than a correction of anybody: suggestions here often quietly assume a car, a spare afternoon or a household that can absorb the disruption. Several members have none of those, and it is worth saying what a suggestion assumes.

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EspeSeville, ES
#5

Somebody in this circle said that not drinking is not a moral position and does not require a defence, and I have used that at three parties.

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MorayElgin, UK
#6

The thing I did not expect was how much better my sleep got, and how much of what I had blamed on other things had been the drinking.

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NkechiAbuja, NG
#7

Building on what Moray wrote rather than answering the original question.

I would gently say that if you are drinking to manage a difficult week, that is worth saying out loud somewhere, and this is a good place to start.

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LinneaTurku, FI
#8

My rule now is that I do not drink on the day, which is entirely my own rule and my prescriber was fairly relaxed about the whole subject.

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NedChesterfield, UK
#9

Something practical: I switched to something non-alcoholic that looks like a drink, and the number of questions I get dropped to zero.

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LucasSão Paulo, BR
#10

I found that eating less alongside drinking was the actual mechanism in my case, rather than anything more mysterious.

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BethanPontypridd, UK
#11

You have described the bit that nobody warns you about.

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TamGlasgow, UK
#12

My relationship with drinking changed in a way I have found mostly positive and slightly disorienting, and this circle is where I worked that out.

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TeganNewport, UK
#13

I stopped entirely for six months, not as a rule, just because it stopped being interesting, and started again occasionally.

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BrynAberystwyth, UK
#14

Something worth knowing: this interacts with other things I take and a pharmacist gave me a much more precise answer than I expected.

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RafeBordeaux, FR
#15

My experience is that this is one of the most commonly reported changes here and one of the least discussed anywhere else.

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AdaFacilitatorManchester, UK
#16

Gently: nobody needs to justify the shape of their week here, including the members whose weeks have no shape at all.

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Obi OEnugu, NG
#17

Two landed like five for me, very early on, and it took one uncomfortable evening to work out that something had genuinely changed.

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