Starting a thread on this because it keeps coming up in ones and twos: The lifestyle programme I was referred to, honestly reviewed
Bringing this here rather than to the general circle because the specifics change the answer.
Some background first, because it genuinely changes the answer and I have been given general advice three times that did not apply to me.
What I cannot work out is which of the two stories a particular change belongs to, and I suspect nobody can tell me from the outside.
Happy to answer questions if any of the detail would be useful to somebody else in the same position.
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