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The plateau

My clinician says wait and I am struggling to

Started 19 May 2026 · 15 replies · 86 hearts · read 943 times

PerrineStrasbourg, FR · 19 May 2026
2 months ago

Something I have been sitting with: My clinician says wait and I am struggling to Not looking for advice so much as other people's experience.

Long one, sorry. I have been chewing on this for a fortnight.

My prescriber has been fine, genuinely. The problem is that I get nine minutes twice a year and there is no version of nine minutes that covers a whole stage of this.

I am aware some of this may simply be what this stage is like. I would still like to hear from people who have been through it, because I have spent a fortnight assuming I am the only one.

What I would find most useful is not advice. It is somebody describing what their version of this stage was, and how long it went on for before it changed.

Anyway. Thank you for reading this far. Any experience of this stage gratefully received, and I will come back and say what happened.

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IlseMaastricht, NL
#1

What helped was giving the flat stretch a job. I used mine to sort out sleep, which had been quietly terrible for a year and had nothing to do with any of this.

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TinukeManchester, UK
#2

Mine broke without me changing anything. I had changed four things by then, obviously, so I have no idea which of them did it, and I suspect none of them did.

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AdaFacilitatorManchester, UK
#3

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SableCape Town, ZA
#4

Picking up Ilse’s point rather than starting a new one.

I am eight weeks into one now and reading this thread because I need to hear that other people got through theirs. That is all. No question attached.

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BrunoMilan, IT
#5

The second flat stretch was much easier than the first, purely because I had already survived one and knew the shape of it.

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OsmanAnkara, TR
#6

Sable — yes, and the bit that took me longest to accept was the next part.

My prescriber was completely unbothered by mine, which annoyed me at the time and turned out to be the correct response. She said bodies do this and asked me to come back in eight weeks.

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LeifTrondheim, NO
#7

Something I had to unlearn: a plateau is not evidence that I did something wrong. I spent six weeks auditing my own behaviour for a mistake that was not there.

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TiborBratislava, SK
#8

I found that keeping a two-line diary through a plateau was the only way to see that anything at all was happening. From inside the week it looked like nothing.

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PolaGdańsk, PL
#9

If you are in one, the thing I would ask is whether you are still doing the things that were helping before it started. I quietly stopped several of mine and only noticed in hindsight.

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NadjaBelgrade, RS
#10

Saying it out loud helps other people say it too. Thank you.

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TiernanOmagh, NI
#11

No advice, just company. Here if it helps.

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IlyaAlmaty, KZ
#12

Mine ended the week I stopped keeping a spreadsheet about it, which is either a profound insight or a coincidence and I genuinely do not know which.

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BibiRabat, MA
#13

Ilya said something I want to sit with for a second.

I asked at my review whether a long flat stretch meant something was wrong and was told, gently, that bodies are not linear and the assumption that they should be is the odd bit.

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AdaFacilitatorManchester, UK
#14

Facilitator note: this circle is deliberately quiet about numbers and a couple of replies have started to drift that way. Nothing wrong intended and I am steering us back.

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NoleneDurban, ZA
#15

Somebody here described the plateau as the part where you find out whether you are doing this for a number or for a life, and that landed harder than I wanted it to.

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