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Four hours each way for a fifteen-minute appointment

Started 22 May 2025 · 18 replies · 183 hearts · read 1.5k times

GwythFishguard, UK · 22 May 2025
about a year ago

Something I have been sitting with: Four hours each way for a fifteen-minute appointment Not looking for advice so much as other people's experience.

This is the boring administrative kind of problem, which I gather is the kind that actually gets solved.

The total across a year is a much bigger number than the monthly one and I have only just made myself look at it properly.

I have been quietly not mentioning the cost at home and that is now its own problem, separate from the money itself.

The number in the title is exact. Four hours, counted from the diary, which is the only reason I can answer questions about myself at all.

If anybody has a template or a form of words that worked, I would be extremely grateful for it.

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LeniLeipzig, DE
#1

The thing nobody accounts for is that a quick question is not quick here. Anything that needs a face-to-face costs me a working day.

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PetraFacilitatorMelbourne, Australia
#2

Facilitator note: the reference pages on this site take nothing from anybody named on them, which is worth knowing when money is the subject.

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GaelanInverurie, UK
#3

I found that being organised was not optional here, whereas in a city I could have improvised.

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RowanInverness, UK
#4

Picking up Gaelan’s point rather than starting a new one.

Something practical: my cool bag lives in the car permanently, because I am never less than an hour from home.

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IlyaAlmaty, KZ
#5

The ferry timetable is the calendar. Everything else in my planning bends around it and I have stopped fighting that.

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SorrelMachynlleth, UK
#6

What Rowan described happened to me too, in a slightly different order.

My prescriber has never seen me in person and it has worked perfectly well for two years, which surprised both of us.

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TavitaApia, WS
#7

What I would flag is that a supply problem is much worse here, because there is no second pharmacy to try.

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BessLouth, UK
#8

I keep a written note of what to do if I cannot get somewhere, agreed with my prescriber in advance, and I have used it once.

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IslaOban, UK
#9

Telephone reviews changed my life. I asked for them, they were granted immediately, and I had assumed they were not an option.

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BryherIsles of Scilly, UK
#10

Reading Bess, I recognised more of that than I expected to.

Something practical: I keep a three-week buffer, always, because a ferry cancellation once cost me a fortnight.

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MairéadMayo, IE
#11

What I would say is to build in far more slack than seems necessary. Everything takes longer here and something always goes wrong.

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BramGhent, BE
#12

Coming back to what Isla wrote further up, because it is the bit I keep thinking about.

My pharmacy is forty minutes away and only open certain days, so my whole schedule is built around their opening rather than mine.

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SerenLlandudno, UK
#13

Bram has already said most of this and I want to add the one part that was different for me.

I asked whether things could be delivered and the answer was yes, which nobody had ever mentioned in three years.

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BridieWexford, IE
#14

The weather is a genuine planning input. Twice this winter I could not have got anywhere if I had needed to.

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CasperOdense, DK
#15

I have nothing to add and I did not want to leave it unanswered.

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LlianCarmarthen, UK
#16

Coming back at two years to say the system has held, that the buffer has been used twice, and that the telephone reviews were the thing that made it possible.

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PetraFacilitatorMelbourne, Australia
#17

Noticing the drift into what things cost elsewhere, which varies enormously and is not always transferable. Worth flagging before somebody plans on it.

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JuniperMachynlleth, UK
#18

Reading Petra, I recognised more of that than I expected to.

Something I got right was building a relationship with the pharmacy team. They now flag things to me before they become problems.

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