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Ferry timetables and a weekly dose

Started 14 December 2024 · 16 replies · 187 hearts · read 1.7k times

GaelanInverurie, UK · 14 December 2024
1.6 years ago

A question rather than an update: Ferry timetables and a weekly dose

This is the boring administrative kind of problem, which I gather is the kind that actually gets solved.

I have been quietly not mentioning the cost at home and that is now its own problem, separate from the money itself.

I would like to hear what other people actually do, including the arrangements that are not tidy, because mine is not going to be tidy.

If anybody has a template or a form of words that worked, I would be extremely grateful for it.

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DelythBala, UK
#1

Telephone reviews changed my life. I asked for them, they were granted immediately, and I had assumed they were not an option.

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SaffHastings, UK
#2

Something practical: I keep a three-week buffer, always, because a ferry cancellation once cost me a fortnight.

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SorrelMachynlleth, UK
#3

Coming back at two years to say the system has held, that the buffer has been used twice, and that the telephone reviews were the thing that made it possible.

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PetraFacilitatorMelbourne, Australia
#4

Facilitator note: this community sells nothing, brokers nothing and takes nothing from anybody. That is why the numbers people quote here can be trusted.

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BridieWexford, IE
#5

Gently disagreeing with Sorrel, or rather adding the other half of it.

The one thing I would not compromise on is the buffer. Everything else in my arrangement has flexed and that has not.

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BrackAlnwick, UK
#6

This is the honest version, and the honest version is harder to write.

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Birdie BWhitstable, UK
#7

I found that describing the journey in hours rather than miles was what made people understand, and after that the arrangements changed.

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TullaTralee, IE
#8

My honest report is that this has been more work than it would have been elsewhere and has gone perfectly well.

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SerenLlandudno, UK
#9

Something worth knowing: the postal service here is unreliable in winter, so anything time-sensitive is collected rather than sent.

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IslaOban, UK
#10

Tulla, thank you for that. It gives me somewhere to start from.

What surprised me was how accommodating everybody was once I explained the actual distances involved.

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CasperOdense, DK
#11

Building on what Seren wrote rather than answering the original question.

My prescriber has never seen me in person and it has worked perfectly well for two years, which surprised both of us.

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TavitaApia, WS
#12

The ferry timetable is the calendar. Everything else in my planning bends around it and I have stopped fighting that.

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LeniLeipzig, DE
#13

Something practical: my cool bag lives in the car permanently, because I am never less than an hour from home.

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OrsolyaBudapest, HU
#14

Leni said something I want to sit with for a second.

I found that being organised was not optional here, whereas in a city I could have improvised.

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PetraFacilitatorMelbourne, Australia
#15

Holding a boundary: we do not compare what people can afford in this circle, and we do not compare what they have chosen to spend it on.

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ClémenceNantes, FR
#16

The thing nobody accounts for is that a quick question is not quick here. Anything that needs a face-to-face costs me a working day.

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