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Does a plateau mean the dose is wrong

Started 25 November 2024 · 24 replies · 255 hearts · read 5k times

BodhiByron Bay, AU · 25 November 2024
1.6 years ago

Does a plateau mean the dose is wrong Writing it down partly to work out what I actually think.

Long one, sorry. I have been chewing on this for a fortnight.

What I am trying to work out is whether this is a phase with an end to it or the shape of things now, and I do not think I can tell that from inside it.

I nearly did not post this because it feels like a small thing to be stuck on. It has taken up most of my thinking for a month, so apparently it is not small to me.

What I keep tripping on is not knowing whether where I am is where I should be at this point, and having nobody to ask who is not either selling something or worried about me.

Not looking for a plan. Just company, and whatever anybody found at the same stage.

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ShadeIbadan, NG
#1

Something that reframed it: a flat stretch is weather, not a verdict. Somebody wrote that here two years ago and I have carried it around ever since.

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AdaFacilitatorManchester, UK
#2

I want to name the thing this circle does when somebody says they have stopped: it treats it as ordinary. That is not automatic anywhere else and it is worth saying out loud here.

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BrackAlnwick, UK
#3

What got me through was measuring things that were not the scale. Stairs, sleep, how far I could walk before I wanted to stop. All of those were moving while the number was not.

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NolCork, IE
#4

Picking up Shade’s point rather than starting a new one.

Mine lasted nineteen weeks. I want to say that plainly because when I was in mine, every account I found described eight and I thought I was broken.

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OsmanAnkara, TR
#5

What I say to anybody in one now is that you are still here, still on treatment, still doing the thing. That is the whole of what a flat stretch asks of you.

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OzrenZagreb, HR
#6

Nol — yes, and the bit that took me longest to accept was the next part.

I want to add the unglamorous version: mine was boring rather than distressing. Weeks of nothing, mild irritation, and then it moved. Not every plateau is a crisis.

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BronLincoln, UK
#7

Twelve weeks of nothing here too. I remember the exact fortnight when I stopped believing anything would change, and then it did, and I still cannot tell you why.

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NedChesterfield, UK
#8

Coming back six months later to close the loop, because I hate threads that stop. Mine lasted seventeen weeks and then quietly ended and I did not notice for a fortnight.

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ÖzlemIzmir, TR
#9

Same here, and I am glad you said it first.

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NolwennRennes, FR
#10

Ned said something I want to sit with for a second.

I asked at my review whether a long flat stretch meant something was wrong and was told, gently, that bodies are not linear and the assumption that they should be is the odd bit.

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GwythFishguard, UK
#11

I found that keeping a two-line diary through a plateau was the only way to see that anything at all was happening. From inside the week it looked like nothing.

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LinneaTurku, FI
#12

Reading Gwyth, I recognised more of that than I expected to.

Something I had to unlearn: a plateau is not evidence that I did something wrong. I spent six weeks auditing my own behaviour for a mistake that was not there.

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GudrunAkureyri, IS
#14

The second flat stretch was much easier than the first, purely because I had already survived one and knew the shape of it.

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TiernanOmagh, NI
#15

Gudrun, thank you for that. It gives me somewhere to start from.

I nearly stopped during mine, and the only reason I did not was that I had promised to come to a circle call on the Thursday and did not want to arrive having quit on the Tuesday.

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PerlaManila, PH
#16

Plateau weeks are the ones where this community is most useful, in my experience. There is nothing to celebrate and nothing to fix, and the only thing that helps is company.

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TamarPlymouth, UK
#17

My prescriber was completely unbothered by mine, which annoyed me at the time and turned out to be the correct response. She said bodies do this and asked me to come back in eight weeks.

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OttilieCheshire, UK
#18

Perla has already said most of this and I want to add the one part that was different for me.

Mine broke without me changing anything. I had changed four things by then, obviously, so I have no idea which of them did it, and I suspect none of them did.

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BramwellRipon, UK
#19

I stopped weighing anything during mine, entirely, for three months. It was the single kindest decision I made that year and my prescriber was fine with it.

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DashSeattle, WA
#20

The bit that was hardest to say out loud was that I felt cheated. Not sad, not discouraged. Cheated. It helped enormously to name it accurately.

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TaaviTallinn, EE
#21

Agreed, and I have nothing to add to it.

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OrphBath, UK
#22

What helped was giving the flat stretch a job. I used mine to sort out sleep, which had been quietly terrible for a year and had nothing to do with any of this.

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AdaFacilitatorManchester, UK
#23

I will leave this open for a few more days and then add it to the circle's resources, because the answers here are better than anything I would have written.

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TobinCork, IE
#24

I am eight weeks into one now and reading this thread because I need to hear that other people got through theirs. That is all. No question attached.

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