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I stopped weighing myself and the plateau stopped mattering as much

Started 31 October 2024 · 23 replies · 250 hearts · read 5.1k times

OrvalWinnipeg, CA · 31 October 2024
1.7 years ago

Something I have been sitting with: I stopped weighing myself and the plateau stopped mattering as much Not looking for advice so much as other people's experience.

I do not know if this belongs in this circle. Move me if not.

I want to write this down while I am still in it, because I have noticed that I rewrite these stages afterwards into something more sensible than they were.

My honest position is that I do not know whether to change something or wait, and I have been going round that question for three weeks without getting anywhere.

Sorry for the length. If anybody has been at this point, I would very much like to hear how it went.

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NyalaAddis Ababa, ET
#1

My prescriber was completely unbothered by mine, which annoyed me at the time and turned out to be the correct response. She said bodies do this and asked me to come back in eight weeks.

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AdaFacilitatorManchester, UK
#2

A note for whoever opened this, whether you are still reading or come back to it in a year: there is no obligation on you to update us, and equally you are always welcome to.

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NadjaBelgrade, RS
#3

I nearly stopped during mine, and the only reason I did not was that I had promised to come to a circle call on the Thursday and did not want to arrive having quit on the Tuesday.

5me too 4

RuaridhFort William, UK
#4

Plateau weeks are the ones where this community is most useful, in my experience. There is nothing to celebrate and nothing to fix, and the only thing that helps is company.

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IzoldaVilnius, LT
#5

Mine lasted nineteen weeks. I want to say that plainly because when I was in mine, every account I found described eight and I thought I was broken.

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ShadeIbadan, NG
#6

Nadja has already said most of this and I want to add the one part that was different for me.

What got me through was measuring things that were not the scale. Stairs, sleep, how far I could walk before I wanted to stop. All of those were moving while the number was not.

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LeifTrondheim, NO
#7

Picking up Ruaridh’s point rather than starting a new one.

The plateau was not the hard part for me. The hard part was what I started telling myself about the plateau after about week five.

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NissaHaifa, IL
#8

Something that reframed it: a flat stretch is weather, not a verdict. Somebody wrote that here two years ago and I have carried it around ever since.

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AikoOsaka, JP
#9

Coming back six months later to close the loop, because I hate threads that stop. Mine lasted seventeen weeks and then quietly ended and I did not notice for a fortnight.

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PerlaManila, PH
#10

No advice, just company. Here if it helps.

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NadirCasablanca, MA
#11

What I say to anybody in one now is that you are still here, still on treatment, still doing the thing. That is the whole of what a flat stretch asks of you.

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BramberSteyning, UK
#12

You have described the bit that nobody warns you about.

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BrackAlnwick, UK
#13

Mine ended the week I stopped keeping a spreadsheet about it, which is either a profound insight or a coincidence and I genuinely do not know which.

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Birdie BWhitstable, UK
#14

The practical thing I did was set a date twelve weeks out to review it properly, and then deliberately stop thinking about it until that date. It gave me the fortnight back.

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LlianCarmarthen, UK
#15

Bramber has already said most of this and I want to add the one part that was different for me.

Reading back through this circle's older threads was what got me through mine. Dozens of people, all convinced theirs was the permanent one, all still here.

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TanviMumbai, IN
#16

I asked at my review whether a long flat stretch meant something was wrong and was told, gently, that bodies are not linear and the assumption that they should be is the odd bit.

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BroganCumbernauld, UK
#17

Mine went on so long that I forgot it was a plateau and just got on with things, and I think that is genuinely how most of them end — not with a change, but with you stopping watching.

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LandoLeeds, UK
#18

Tanvi said something I want to sit with for a second.

Somebody here described the plateau as the part where you find out whether you are doing this for a number or for a life, and that landed harder than I wanted it to.

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GudrunAkureyri, IS
#19

If you are in one, the thing I would ask is whether you are still doing the things that were helping before it started. I quietly stopped several of mine and only noticed in hindsight.

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OsipTbilisi, GE
#20

My flat stretch coincided with a genuinely difficult period at work, and I now think the two were related in ways I will never be able to separate out.

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IzzyWatford, UK
#21

I stopped weighing anything during mine, entirely, for three months. It was the single kindest decision I made that year and my prescriber was fine with it.

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AdaFacilitatorManchester, UK
#22

I am going to close the loop on this one rather than let it drift. Where the person who opened a thread comes back with an update, that is the post I would least want a later reader to miss.

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OzrenZagreb, HR
#23

Honest experience: mine did not break. It became the level I stayed at, and after about four months I stopped calling it a plateau and started calling it where I live.

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