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Is a plateau a signal or just weather

Started 8 August 2024 · 21 replies · 242 hearts · read 2.7k times

PeronelCanterbury, UK · 8 August 2024
1.9 years ago

Something I have been sitting with: Is a plateau a signal or just weather Not looking for advice so much as other people's experience.

I have been reading here for a few weeks and have not posted, so this is me posting.

I have a review coming up and I would like to arrive with a proper account of this stage rather than the vague description I gave last time.

The thing that has surprised me most about this stage is how much of it is about other people rather than about me.

Sorry for the length. If anybody has been at this point, I would very much like to hear how it went.

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MattNottingham, UK
#1

I found that keeping a two-line diary through a plateau was the only way to see that anything at all was happening. From inside the week it looked like nothing.

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AdaFacilitatorManchester, UK
#2

Something worth noticing whenever it happens in a thread like this: somebody puts down the difficult version rather than the tidy one, and nobody flinches. That is not automatic and it is most of what we are for.

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Bell ANorwich, UK
#3

Building on what Ada wrote rather than answering the original question.

Mine broke without me changing anything. I had changed four things by then, obviously, so I have no idea which of them did it, and I suspect none of them did.

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BramwellRipon, UK
#4

What helped was giving the flat stretch a job. I used mine to sort out sleep, which had been quietly terrible for a year and had nothing to do with any of this.

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SunnivaBodø, NO
#5

I nearly stopped during mine, and the only reason I did not was that I had promised to come to a circle call on the Thursday and did not want to arrive having quit on the Tuesday.

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NikolaiSofia, BG
#6

Bell A has already said most of this and I want to add the one part that was different for me.

Plateau weeks are the ones where this community is most useful, in my experience. There is nothing to celebrate and nothing to fix, and the only thing that helps is company.

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BrackAlnwick, UK
#7

My prescriber was completely unbothered by mine, which annoyed me at the time and turned out to be the correct response. She said bodies do this and asked me to come back in eight weeks.

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AurelBucharest, RO
#8

The second flat stretch was much easier than the first, purely because I had already survived one and knew the shape of it.

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OdessaLviv, UA
#9

Nothing to add except that I am glad this thread exists.

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BertrandToulouse, FR
#10

Every plateau thread here has somebody saying theirs lasted longer than they thought possible and then ended. I did not believe them. They were right.

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NkemPort Harcourt, NG
#11

Reading and nodding. Nothing to add, and I wanted you to know somebody had read it.

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IzzyWatford, UK
#12

I am eight weeks into one now and reading this thread because I need to hear that other people got through theirs. That is all. No question attached.

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RuaridhFort William, UK
#13

Bertrand has already said most of this and I want to add the one part that was different for me.

The most useful thing anybody said to me during mine was that maintaining is not nothing. It sounds obvious and it did not feel obvious at the time.

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NkosiJohannesburg, ZA
#14

Honest experience: mine did not break. It became the level I stayed at, and after about four months I stopped calling it a plateau and started calling it where I live.

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AriaAuckland, NZ
#15

I stopped weighing anything during mine, entirely, for three months. It was the single kindest decision I made that year and my prescriber was fine with it.

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OzrenZagreb, HR
#16

The bit that was hardest to say out loud was that I felt cheated. Not sad, not discouraged. Cheated. It helped enormously to name it accurately.

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TiernanOmagh, NI
#17

My flat stretch coincided with a genuinely difficult period at work, and I now think the two were related in ways I will never be able to separate out.

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PersisBristol, UK
#18

Gently disagreeing with Ozren, or rather adding the other half of it.

If you are in one, the thing I would ask is whether you are still doing the things that were helping before it started. I quietly stopped several of mine and only noticed in hindsight.

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NolwennRennes, FR
#19

Building on what Tiernan wrote rather than answering the original question.

What got me through was measuring things that were not the scale. Stairs, sleep, how far I could walk before I wanted to stop. All of those were moving while the number was not.

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AdaFacilitatorManchester, UK
#20

I want to slow this down a little. There are four different accounts of the same stage in this thread and they are all somebody's real experience, which makes them true and not necessarily relevant to the person who asked.

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ObiLagos, NG
#21

Something I had to unlearn: a plateau is not evidence that I did something wrong. I spent six weeks auditing my own behaviour for a mistake that was not there.

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