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Forgetting to eat when there is no hunger cue at all

Started 17 March 2026 · 17 replies · 126 hearts · read 1.7k times

AnnikaStockholm, SE · 17 March 2026
4 months ago

Forgetting to eat when there is no hunger cue at all — putting it in its own thread so it does not get lost in the check-in.

Not asking anyone to fix this. Mostly saying it out loud somewhere it will be read kindly.

I do not have a question exactly. I have a thing I have noticed about myself and no idea whether it is worth mentioning to anybody.

What I want is company rather than an answer, and I have learned that this circle is one of the few places where asking for that is not strange.

No advice needed. Company would be welcome and anything else is a bonus.

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EsmeAix-en-Provence, FR
#1

The masking cost at appointments is real and I now bring somebody with me, which halves the exhaustion afterwards.

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Thank you for writing this. I am not going to add information to it. What you have described is very common and very rarely said out loud.

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WilfStoke, UK
#3

Kiki has already said most of this and I want to add the one part that was different for me.

What surprised me was how much better I felt once one specific sensory issue was resolved. It had been draining more than I realised.

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SoniaValencia, ES
#4

My notes are the only reason I can answer questions about myself. Without them I would have nothing to bring to a review at all.

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LeifTrondheim, NO
#5

What worked was external signals. Timers, notes, a visible chart, my partner asking a specific question at a specific time.

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NixLeith, UK
#6

Wilf has already said most of this and I want to add the one part that was different for me.

I had a very difficult fortnight when my routine broke for an unrelated reason, and rebuilding it took longer than I expected.

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ObieNashville, TN
#7

Something practical: everything lives in one box in one place and it never moves. That single rule has prevented dozens of problems.

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TobiasHamburg, DE
#8

My experience is that the medical part has been simple and the logistics have been the entire challenge.

3me too 3

GwilymCaernarfon, UK
#9

Recognition rather than advice, if that is any use at all.

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Bryn MNeath, UK
#10

I found appointments difficult for reasons unrelated to the subject, and writing everything down beforehand solved most of it.

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TarqWindsor, UK
#11

Nothing here is medical advice, and interactions with other medication are a real question worth taking to a pharmacist specifically.

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AnnikaStockholm, SE
#12

The thing I would flag is that a change in routine for any reason has knock-on effects for weeks. Plan for that rather than being surprised.

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EsmeAix-en-Provence, FR
#13

Interoception is the whole thing for me. I have never reliably known when I was hungry, and a change in appetite signalling was always going to be complicated.

9me too 7

WilfStoke, UK
#15

What I found was that the general advice assumes you can tell how you feel and act on it, and that assumption does not hold for me.

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I am going to name that this thread has drifted into comparison. That happens without anybody intending it and it does not help. Back to the person who asked, please.

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LeifTrondheim, NO
#17

Reading Tacita, I recognised more of that than I expected to.

Executive function was where this got hard. Not the doing, the initiating, and building a rigid structure around it was the only thing that worked.

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