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Batch cooking and freezer labels as a survival strategy

Started 5 May 2025 · 19 replies · 219 hearts · read 3.2k times

Bryn MNeath, UK · 5 May 2025
about a year ago

A question rather than an update: Batch cooking and freezer labels as a survival strategy

Not asking anyone to fix this. Mostly saying it out loud somewhere it will be read kindly.

I am not in crisis and I do not want anybody worried. I am flat, and I have been flat for longer than I would like, and I am naming it here first.

I have been sitting on this for a month and it has not got smaller, which I gather is how these things usually go.

No advice needed. Company would be welcome and anything else is a bonus.

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TacitaRome, IT
#1

What surprised me was how much better I felt once one specific sensory issue was resolved. It had been draining more than I realised.

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Gently: you have apologised twice in a post where you have done nothing that requires an apology.

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AnnikaStockholm, SE
#3

The masking cost at appointments is real and I now bring somebody with me, which halves the exhaustion afterwards.

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GwilymCaernarfon, UK
#4

Reading Kiki, I recognised more of that than I expected to.

I would gently say that if you need things explained differently, ask. Mine were, once I asked, and the appointments improved immediately.

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EsmeAix-en-Provence, FR
#5

Annika — yes, and the bit that took me longest to accept was the next part.

Something practical: everything lives in one box in one place and it never moves. That single rule has prevented dozens of problems.

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LeifTrondheim, NO
#6

My experience is that the medical part has been simple and the logistics have been the entire challenge.

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ObieNashville, TN
#7

What worked was external signals. Timers, notes, a visible chart, my partner asking a specific question at a specific time.

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NixLeith, UK
#8

I had a very difficult fortnight when my routine broke for an unrelated reason, and rebuilding it took longer than I expected.

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WilfStoke, UK
#9

My eating became much more repetitive and my dietitian was entirely relaxed about that, which I had braced to be told off for.

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TarqWindsor, UK
#10

Adding a name to the list of people this helped.

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SoniaValencia, ES
#11

What I found was that the general advice assumes you can tell how you feel and act on it, and that assumption does not hold for me.

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Bryn MNeath, UK
#12

My routines carried me through the first year. The parts that were routine were effortless and the parts that required judgement were exhausting.

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TacitaRome, IT
#13

Bryn M has already said most of this and I want to add the one part that was different for me.

Interoception is the whole thing for me. I have never reliably known when I was hungry, and a change in appetite signalling was always going to be complicated.

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TobiasHamburg, DE
#14

I would have written the same thing a year ago, word for word.

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AnnikaStockholm, SE
#15

Nothing here is medical advice, and interactions with other medication are a real question worth taking to a pharmacist specifically.

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GwilymCaernarfon, UK
#16

Coming back to what Tobias wrote further up, because it is the bit I keep thinking about.

The thing I would flag is that a change in routine for any reason has knock-on effects for weeks. Plan for that rather than being surprised.

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EsmeAix-en-Provence, FR
#17

Somebody here suggested writing my own protocol as a document, and I did, and it is now four pages and it runs my whole week.

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Two things, both boring. None of us is a therapist. And the fact that we are not does not make company worthless — it makes it company rather than treatment.

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ObieNashville, TN
#19

Reading Esme, I recognised more of that than I expected to.

My notes are the only reason I can answer questions about myself. Without them I would have nothing to bring to a review at all.

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