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How I explained interoception to my GP

Started 5 March 2025 · 20 replies · 249 hearts · read 3.5k times

SoniaValencia, ES · 5 March 2025
1.4 years ago

Starting a thread on this because it keeps coming up in ones and twos: How I explained interoception to my GP

Not asking anyone to fix this. Mostly saying it out loud somewhere it will be read kindly.

What I would find useful is knowing whether anybody else has felt this way about it, because from inside my own head it seems like an unreasonable reaction.

I am not in crisis and I do not want anybody worried. I am flat, and I have been flat for longer than I would like, and I am naming it here first.

I have read a great deal about the physical side of this and almost nothing about the part I am actually struggling with.

If you have felt anything like this, I would like to know. If you have not, that is worth knowing too.

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ObieNashville, TN
#1

My experience is that the medical part has been simple and the logistics have been the entire challenge.

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AnnikaStockholm, SE
#2

Picking up Obie’s point rather than starting a new one.

Something practical: everything lives in one box in one place and it never moves. That single rule has prevented dozens of problems.

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EsmeAix-en-Provence, FR
#3

I would gently say that if you need things explained differently, ask. Mine were, once I asked, and the appointments improved immediately.

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Speaking as a facilitator: what has been described here belongs with somebody qualified rather than in a thread, and I would rather say that plainly than let us be reassuring.

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Bryn MNeath, UK
#5

The hardest part was that advice kept coming in the form of listening to my body, and my body does not speak clearly enough for that.

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TarqWindsor, UK
#6

No advice, just company. Here if it helps.

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TacitaRome, IT
#7

Tarq has already said most of this and I want to add the one part that was different for me.

I had a very difficult fortnight when my routine broke for an unrelated reason, and rebuilding it took longer than I expected.

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LeifTrondheim, NO
#8

What worked was external signals. Timers, notes, a visible chart, my partner asking a specific question at a specific time.

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NixLeith, UK
#9

What I got wrong was assuming I would remember. I do not remember. Everything that works for me is written down or automated.

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GwilymCaernarfon, UK
#10

Somebody in this circle described a body that does not send clear signals, and it was the first time I had seen that written down anywhere.

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TobiasHamburg, DE
#11

The masking cost at appointments is real and I now bring somebody with me, which halves the exhaustion afterwards.

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SoniaValencia, ES
#12

Tobias said something I want to sit with for a second.

What surprised me was how much better I felt once one specific sensory issue was resolved. It had been draining more than I realised.

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ObieNashville, TN
#13

My notes are the only reason I can answer questions about myself. Without them I would have nothing to bring to a review at all.

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AnnikaStockholm, SE
#14

I found the unpredictability harder than any individual difficulty. Knowing what to expect is worth more to me than the thing being easy.

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EsmeAix-en-Provence, FR
#15

Adding a name to the list of people this helped.

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WilfStoke, UK
#16

Somebody here suggested writing my own protocol as a document, and I did, and it is now four pages and it runs my whole week.

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Bryn MNeath, UK
#17

My eating became much more repetitive and my dietitian was entirely relaxed about that, which I had braced to be told off for.

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TarqWindsor, UK
#18

Reading Wilf, I recognised more of that than I expected to.

The thing I would flag is that a change in routine for any reason has knock-on effects for weeks. Plan for that rather than being surprised.

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I want to slow this right down. Something difficult has been said and the thread has moved on quickly. Let us stay with the person who said it.

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LeifTrondheim, NO
#20

Nothing here is medical advice, and interactions with other medication are a real question worth taking to a pharmacist specifically.

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