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Being the youngest person in every waiting room

Started 9 May 2026 · 13 replies · 83 hearts · read 1.2k times

NazneenDhaka, BD · 9 May 2026
2 months ago

Being the youngest person in every waiting room Writing it down partly to work out what I actually think.

Anyone else navigating this? I feel as though every piece of advice I read was written for someone with a completely different week.

The social side of this is harder for me than any of the logistics, and I have not found anywhere else where that is discussed practically.

I would like practical detail rather than encouragement. What people actually do, in what order, and what goes wrong when they get it wrong.

Sorry for the length. The logistics take longer to describe than they do to do.

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TobinCork, IE
#1

What helped was one friend who knows everything, which took me eight months to arrange and has been worth all of it.

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Facilitator note: this is a logistics thread rather than a clinical one, which is a relief, and I would still rather nobody offered instructions.

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BarnabyWinchester, UK
#3

My prescriber and I have a plan that gets reviewed every six months, and having it be revisable rather than fixed suits my life.

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NyalaAddis Ababa, ET
#4

Something that helped was writing down why I started, because at eighteen months I could not remember what my reasoning had been.

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TorinBelfast, NI
#5

Well said, and thank you for taking the time over it.

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GabePhoenix, AZ
#6

What I found is that being taken seriously at my age required me to be very organised in appointments, more than an older person would need to be.

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TallisEly, UK
#7

Gently disagreeing with Gabe, or rather adding the other half of it.

Something practical: I set my life up so that this is cheap and simple, because my situation changes every few months.

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GwionBangor, UK
#8

I would say get somebody clinical who takes you seriously. My first prescriber did not and changing was the best decision I made.

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AikoOsaka, JP
#9

Gently disagreeing with Tallis, or rather adding the other half of it.

My friends do not know and I have found that isolating, and this is where I say the things I cannot say to them.

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LinneaTurku, FI
#10

What surprised me was how much of the material is aimed at people twice my age, and how little of it fits my actual week.

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TorrinAberdeen, UK
#11

Reading Aiko, I recognised more of that than I expected to.

I found the social side hardest. Everybody eating and drinking constantly and no interest in why I was not.

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Stepping in to say what happens here when somebody describes a very tight situation: they get answered without a trace of judgement. That is not luck, it is the habit of the room, and it is worth protecting.

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GwenBangor, UK
#13

The thing I would flag to anybody young here is that the internet is very loud on this subject and most of it is selling something.

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