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Swimming again after eleven years

Started 30 December 2024 · 16 replies · 178 hearts · read 2.7k times

PietPretoria, ZA · 30 December 2024
1.6 years ago

A question rather than an update: Swimming again after eleven years

Anyone else navigating this? I feel as though every piece of advice I read was written for someone with a completely different week.

I have tried three arrangements and none of them has survived a difficult week, which suggests I am designing for good weeks.

My household has adjusted to about half of this and the other half is causing small daily friction that I have not known how to raise.

I keep records precisely so that I do not have to estimate, and the record says eleven years, which is what the title says too.

No hurry. I have a fortnight before I need to decide anything.

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OsmanAnkara, TR
#1

I asked directly what the evidence looked like for people my age and got an honest answer about how thin it is, and I respected that.

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NikoTbilisi, GE
#2

Something practical: I take a written list of everything I take to every appointment, because nobody's system has it right.

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LucasSão Paulo, BR
#3

My medication list is long and getting a proper review of all of it together was the most useful appointment of the last three years.

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RenFacilitatorBristol, UK
#4

Gently: nobody needs to justify the shape of their week here, including the members whose weeks have no shape at all.

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EdwynNewcastle, UK
#5

That is a very clear way of putting something I have never been able to put clearly.

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BrimHalifax, UK
#6

I went considerably slower than the schedule, agreed, and it has been entirely uneventful over two years.

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OttilieCheshire, UK
#7

My balance and my grip are the two things I watch, and both have improved, and neither of them is on any form anybody gives me.

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OllyReading, UK
#8

Brim, thank you for that. It gives me somewhere to start from.

The pharmacist has been the most useful person in this whole business, and I would say that to anybody at my stage.

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PietPretoria, ZA
#9

What helped most was a physiotherapist who gave me a specific programme rather than a general encouragement to be active.

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OsmanAnkara, TR
#10

What Ottilie described happened to me too, in a slightly different order.

Nothing here is medical advice, and at my stage the interactions with everything else genuinely need somebody qualified looking at the whole list.

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NikoTbilisi, GE
#11

What Osman described happened to me too, in a slightly different order.

What I found is that the guidance assumes a body with more margin, and going slowly was not caution, it was the sensible plan.

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LucasSão Paulo, BR
#12

What I would flag is that muscle matters more now than it did at forty, and protecting it is worth more attention than anything else.

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BertrandToulouse, FR
#13

Strength work has mattered more to me at this stage than anything else, and everybody I have spoken to has said the same.

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EdwynNewcastle, UK
#14

Holding this with you rather than answering it.

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Thank you for the honesty about how hard the logistics have been. The accounts that admit the planning is exhausting are the useful ones.

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OttilieCheshire, UK
#16

Building on what Ren wrote rather than answering the original question.

Something I did not expect was how much better my knees have been, which was not what I was aiming at and is what I most appreciate.

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